Being in the personal development industry I hear a lot of quotations, but none I feel quite capture the spirit of New Code NLP like the one above. Teaching your clients how to apply NLP in their own lives and coach themselves is such a generative approach, it allows them to continue growing, developing and creating new choices years after their time spent with you and even better, it often extends beyond them when they pass on these tools to others. This...
On a train journey to London today, I thought I would play with NLP patterning in a non-explicit way. My motivation here is to provide some interesting ideas for people who are interested in NLP applications for everyday use. So many NLP courses do not provide practical experiences for people to really test the patterning I am writing this article in present tense, the events will be occurring as I write. ...
It was a cold November afternoon in 2003 at around 5 o’clock, I was sitting in the consulting room of a Urologist. I forget his name, as it is and was, unimportant. He had just removed his rubber glove having subjected me to an indignity when with a dead pan face and no emotion he announced I had prostate cancer. My blood ran cold and with a quavering voice I tentatively asked him what could be done about it He said ‘Well, we have two option...
In Neuro Linguistic Programming we say our attention is directed by our ‘filters’. Filters help us cognitively divide up and categorise the world. Our personal experiences determine how we filter the world and these can operate on the cultural, family and individual level. In this article, I am going to write about how important it is for a company to create a positive filter in the minds of their customers through customer service to build brand...
Have you, in your relationship every heard yourself saying ‘it’s wrong to __________’ or ‘it’s bad to __________’ or ‘it’s inappropriate to ___________’ or maybe you have been on the receiving end of such language. Usually I get a shiver when I hear this type of language, the speaker is distorting the world, and they are making a value judgement, without a specific source seems and turning into a global rule. So when so...
Have you, in your relationship ever been told what you ‘should’ ‘ought’ ‘must,’ ‘need ‘ to do something? If you have experienced this type of language, take a few moments now to mentally backtrack in time and explore your internal response to this style of communication. How did you react internally? What did you feel? What did you say to yourself? What images did you create? Or is this style of language so frequent it had little impact? Th...
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